Social Media: The Gains and The Pains
Social
media has taken over the world. It is very rare to find a person is not into
social media. It has been expanding, before now the most popular was Facebook
(I think) but other sites such as Twitter, LinkedIn, WhatsApp,
Skype, Instagram, Telegram to mention a few, are now close
competitors for an individuals’ time and attention.
Information
is key in today’s world. A misinformed person is more or less someone
with a deformed mind. The world as a global village has the need for
communication to disseminate information. Social media meets this by providing
the platform to spread information like an uncontrolled wild fire.
Thankfully,
Nigeria under this democratic dispensation, have people voicing out their
opinions or views. Even though they might not be present physically but still
they make their stand/stance known. It is also a medium for self
expression. As much as social media creates a medium for freedom of
expression, individuals should take caution when addressing issues without the
use of vulgar or barbaric expression.
Social
media has created an atmosphere for networking; people of like minds have the privilege
or opportunity of meeting to rub minds even when far apart. It bridges the gap
of distance-a person can reach the other party instantly via any of the social
media platforms.
Social
media serves as a medium of comic relief. The funny images, memes, GIF, bizarre
stories making news around the world and the posting of jokes are instant pain
relievers. Speaking of re-establishing connection, social media has reconnected
long-lost friends, childhood friends, schoolmates and colleagues that might have
drifted apart because of the furtherance of education, change of location,
marriage or career advancement. It rekindles friendships, opens up old memories
and expands future aspirations.
Social
media has created job opportunities for individuals who have proven to be
internet savvy. In some job descriptions, being social media savvy is an added
advantage. Certain organisations require the services of people who possess
special skills relating to the optimisation of social media usage. These
days, people use social media for business and commercial activities. Skills
such as digital marketing, content marketing and internet marketing are in
high demand.
Social
media has also brought about marital relationships. Two strangers with common
interests can build on their friendship and then take it to another level.
There have been reported cases of people who got hooked up via social
media and are enjoying their union.
Social
media has helped in the transmission of emergencies and breaking news.
Normally, such information would have taken hours to reach the intended
audience or authorities but the advent of social media has brought about a
fast-paced free flowing information world.
As
much social media has done so many good, fraudsters and dubious individuals have
converted it to a business venture to dupe innocent and gullible people. There
have been cases of business transactions and deals that were not genuine that
left the undeserving victim helpless, stranded and psychologically
wounded.
You
recall that a young lady had come all the way from the North to do business
with two men that she had met through one of the social media networks. She
didn’t know their evil intentions and that she would not be alive to tell her
experience. The men had drugged her, raped and eventually killed her. But for
timely intervention, the culprits were nabbed by the police. They
faced the wrath of the law.
Several
cases of such incidences of violence, kidnapping, forgery, impersonation and
other vices have been linked with the wrong associations in the social media
world. Social media has given access to criminals to infringe on people’s
privacy and hack into their accounts. No wonder it is advisable to not give out
all ones information. It is always best to put up privacy settings to block
unwanted access. Mores so, cases of theft of smart phones, laptops and other
gadgets have been on the increase because everyone wants to be on social media
and create a false impression.
Social
media has taken over conversations. These days people rarely sit down to talk
one on one or eyeball to eyeball. They would rather chat. This has led to the
adoption of SMS languages and shorthand. This has also affected the art of
writing because a person who is addicted to social; media and its language would
have difficulty constructing a full sentence without putting slangs,
abbreviations and codes. Now, an individual can chat unlimitedly when that time
could have been used for other productive and beneficial activities.
It has
been proven that people lie on social media. Someone living in Lagos could
deceive people to believe he/she is staying elsewhere. Pictures uploaded might
not be the person’s real identity. Dubious people use fictitious names
and fake accounts. Social media promotes dishonesty and unnecessary behaviour
that wants to oppress and impress people. It has also served as a medium to
spread rumours, false information or stories and fake news. This has brought
about so many controversies, doubts, panics and disputes.
Social
media has been linked to depression. Many have fallen to prey to societal
pressure to keep up with the jonesses. The number of likes and comments took a
toll on their self-esteem. There have been unnecessary comparisons with the
other person’s achievements.
However,
with all the disadvantages associated with social media, it is still
considered as one of the biggest thing to hit this generation in this time
and age. Everybody has gotten on board whether young or old. Wouldn’t you
rather do yourself some good and be active on social media for the right
reasons?
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